THIS isn’t the kind of column in which I hand out relationship advice but imagine for a minute that it was. Imagine too that a man called Harry (former soldier/former party boy) has just written in to ask for advice about his wife Meghan. Harry is worried by the fact Meghan doesn’t want to spend Boxing Day with his family because she doesn’t like what they get up to. Normally, I’d say to someone like Harry that changing who you are for a partner is a bad idea, but on this occasion, I’m .